Lifestyle, Healing & Real Advice for Real Life
Why I Created This Blog (And What You’ll Find Here)
If you’ve stumbled across this blog, welcome. I want this to be a soft, safe place for you and me.
I created this blog during a season when I was craving peace, freedom, and clarity. After years of surviving, masking pain, carrying pressure, and always having to be the strong one… I realized I needed a space where I could just be. Not perfect. Not healed all the way. Just honest, growing, and softening little by little.
This blog is where I get to do that. And it’s where you can do that, too.
What You’ll Find Here
This isn’t just an advice blog or a lifestyle blog; it’s a blend of both. It’s part journal, part guidebook, and all heart.
You’ll see things like:
- Short, real advice for when life gets messy
- Healing thoughts, gentle prayers, and soft reminders
- Cozy life tips from cooking to crafts to boundaries
- Little how-tos (like “how to talk to someone who drains you” or “how to make your rice taste like love”)
- A few personal entries from my own healing journey
- Nostalgic moments, game tips (yep, Sims content too), and soft girl life inspo
Why This Matters
I grew up in chaos. And like many of us, I wasn’t always allowed to feel safe, slow down, or speak my truth. This blog is a love letter to the version of me who needed a soft place to land. And it’s for you, too if you’re craving rest, joy, and some solid advice in the middle of your healing.
Come As You Are
You don’t need to have it all together to be here. You don’t need a “niche” or a plan or perfect routines. Just show up. Read what you need. Breathe. Be seen.
And if something resonates with you, share it, save it, or send it to someone who might need it.
You’re safe here. Let’s grow, laugh, cry, create, and heal together.
With love,
AskMonae 🤎