Question: My girlfriend and I are really close and have a great friendship, but the romance isn’t there. We do a lot of things together but once its time for us to “relax” she seems distant like she isn’t attracted to me or something. Are we better off as friends or am I overthinking it? There is a yes and no answer to this question. Only because it can either mean it isn’t romance yet, or there never will be. I’m working with little information here so hopefully my advice is helpful for you. #1 If there isn’t any romance yet, that friendship will be the thing that gets it…