Friends and family often come to the most trusted person for advice. (I say often because there are a few times they will go to someone else for a second opinion. This, unfortunately, can get them in trouble, but I’ll come back to that later.) This trusted person will listen and put themselves in your shoes so they can give you the best advice possible. They give you the truth, it may hurt, it may be the best thing you ever heard, or just plain out wrong. But you will always know what their intentions are, no confusion! You as the advice giver must be ready to listen and come…