• Blog,  Lifestyle

    Back at It Again…

    Lately, I’ve been thinking about how long I’ve been doing this whole blogging thing. It actually started when I was around 12 or 13 years old. Back then, I had a Blogger account and would write my heart out, mostly just releasing emotions that I didn’t know how to express any other way. It was never really about who read it. It was about getting it out of me. I also had a blog on the original WordPress. I loved that space. I could talk to people online, share my thoughts freely, and not feel judged. Socializing in person was always hard for me. I struggled with bullying growing up,…

  • Sims & Gaming

    My Favorite Sims 4 Loc Styles

    Hey y’all! I started to upload videos, finally. I have been so nervous about it, but I got the courage to do it, and now I’ve been making videos almost daily. I have only posted two! So, be patient with me! lol Make sure you check the video description because I do have a Google Drive link with free downloads! If you would like to see more videos like this one, check out my YouTube!

  • Blog,  Lifestyle

    Why I Started the Ask Monae YouTube Channel

    …and why you should totally subscribe, like, right now. Hey y’all 💛 So, let’s talk about why I finally said yes to starting the Ask Monae YouTube channel and what you can expect if you join the fam over there. Honestly, this has been on my heart for a long time. I’ve always loved helping people feel better, whether that’s through advice, healing tools, laughter, storytelling, or my deep Sims obsession. YouTube just felt like the natural next step, a place where I could bring everything I love into one creative, soulful space. What You’ll Find on My Channel: Why It Matters to Me This channel isn’t about perfection. It’s…

  • Blog,  Healing & Wellness

    How Crocheting Cows (and Other Cute Things) Helped Me Heal

    I learned how to crochet when I was little. But it wasn’t until 2020, when the world hit pause and outside felt like a deleted scene from a dystopian movie, that I really got into it. Y’all. I fell in love with crocheting. Not just because it gave my hands something to do while binge-watching old shows, but because it gave my mind some peace. It’s wild how looping yarn around a hook can calm your nervous system, but here we are. 🐄 Why I Crochet (and Why I’m Kinda Obsessed with Making Cows) At first, I made the basics: scarves, beanies, purses, a few blankets that took longer than…

  • Sims & Gaming

    The Best Sims 4 Mod & CC Managers

    Hey, Simmers! If your Mods folder is all over the place, this post is for you. Whether you’re a seasoned modder or just diving into CC (custom content), having a solid mod manager is essential. You don’t want broken mods, endless loading screens, or a game that crashes the moment your Sim blinks. Trust me. So today, I’m sharing my top 4 favorite Mod & CC Managers that help keep my Sims life stress-free and ✨aesthetic✨. 1. 💻 CurseForge: The OG With Structure 🔗 Download CurseForge Mod Manager CurseForge is where a lot of the safe, approved, and well-known mods live. It’s now EA-partnered, which makes it a trusted source.…

  • Blog,  Lifestyle

    Lovecraft Country: The Show That Gave Us Everything and Deserved More

    There are some shows you watch…And then there are shows that stay with you. Lovecraft Country was one of those shows for me. A wild, beautiful, terrifying, brilliant one-season wonder on HBO Max, and honestly, it should’ve gotten so much more love than it did. Let’s talk about it. What Was Lovecraft Country? If you missed it (first of all: fix that), Lovecraft Country was a genre-blending masterpiece that aired in 2020. It was based on the novel by Matt Ruff, which was inspired by the world of H.P. Lovecraft, except told through the lens of Black people reclaiming horror, fantasy, and sci-fi. But this wasn’t your average sci-fi drama.Nope.…

  • Blog,  Lifestyle

    Journal Entry #1: Getting My Life Back

    Lately, my spirit has been telling me that it’s time to be free. Like… really free. I need to express myself out in the open, not just hide in the house all the time. I truly need to live my life. So, I’m determined to get to a place where I can be myself again without fear. To start, I’ve been slowly easing into the world again, testing the waters. I recently started traveling and going to concerts and sports games with my sister, and honestly? It’s been amazing. We went to Beyoncé’s Cowboy Carter Tour on opening night, and it was so much fun. I forgot how many of…

  • Sims & Gaming

    Sims 4 Mods That Make Me Feel Like a Real Adult

    Alright, we did the must have mods in Part 1. Now for Part 2, it’s time for the mods that bring adulting to The Sims. These are for the girlies who like realism, consequences, and acting like their Sim has to balance work and life like the rest of us. 1. Carl’s Dine Out Reloaded Why I love it: Because EA’s original Dine Out is broken like a plate on Thanksgiving. This mod actually makes restaurants work. You can own one without losing your entire mind. Link: https://www.patreon.com/posts/dine-out-reloaded-82708336 2. SimRealist: Real Estate Mod Why I love it: Instead of just buying a house, now your Sims can apply for loans,…

  • Sims & Gaming

    My Sims 4 Mod Must-Haves That Make the Game a Little Too Real

    So listen. The Sims 4 is cute or whatever… until you mod it up and suddenly you’re watching your Sim file taxes, give birth in 4K, and get a text about selling weed. 😂 Welcome to my folder of chaos, Part 1. Let’s talk about the mods I simply can’t live without. 1. UI Cheats Extension (By weerbesu) Why I love it: Because I love the control, that’s why. This mod lets you click and cheat anything. Want more money? Click it. Need that relationship bar full? Click it. Link: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ui-cheats-v1-36-90271157 2. MC Command Center (By Deaderpool) Why I love it: This is the motherboard of modding. Control pregnancies, move…