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AskMonae: Are we better off as friends?

Question: My girlfriend and i are really close and have a great friendship but the romance isn’t there. Are we better off as friends? There is a yes and no answer to this question. Only because it can either mean it isn’t romance yet, or there never will be. I will explain these two scenarios. #1 If there isn’t any romance yet,that friendship will be the thing that gets it there. You are still getting to know each other, having fun. It just isn’t serious. This is  ...

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AskMonae: I think my boyfriend/girlfriend isn’t over their ex. What do i do?

Question: I think my boyfriend/girlfriend isn’t over their ex. What do i do? This is something that happens often with both men and women! Trust me. First i will give you some reasons why this happens then, i will explain. 1. They had a bad break-up 2. Can’t stand to be alone 3. They are jealous that the ex moved on 4. They were broken up with 5. Unresolved feelings 6. A child is involved Now all of these are common reasons and i have heard them all as the final reason from many  ...

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Inspiration, Self Help

Self Confidence

Many women have a problem with self confidence. It happens for many reasons. For me it was because i wasn’t being told of my beauty. It was always you are such a good person or you’re so smart. Never anything about my appearance which led me to believe that i wasn’t beautiful. As you get older and you get to know those people who get told of their beauty often, 95% of the time they are really ugly inside. They only like who they are on the outside. It becomes everything to  ...

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