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Self Help

Can I Relax? Please?!

Being able to just relax with nothing to do and nothing on your mind is next to impossible. Well, at least for me. I can never really seem to get both of those things to happen at the same time. Someone either needs me, or I have do something. Most of the time my mind is just racing, or I let myself get up and do things when I know I should be resting. I guess I should admit to giving myself sleep deprivation, causing stress, and you can throw in some anxiety. Its not intentional but my  ...

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Advice, Self Help

Dealing With Loneliness

I have always struggled with the feeling of loneliness. As a child I can remember feeling this way all the time. I don’t know why, I just did. My father died when I was 6 months old so I never truly felt the love of a father. My mom worked all the time and my sister was a typical teenager. So I would often be with friends, or sometimes alone. What I really wanted was to feel love or to know it. I know my family loves me and I too love them. But, I still feel like I have nothing to  ...

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Inspiration, Self Help

And Then it Clicked!

For many years I have seen friends and family go through horrible relationships. Once they get out of the them the man or woman they were with, ends up leading a wonderful life with the new person. You see this and you get upset, and think that you may have been the problem. Well that couldnt be further from the truth. The problem wasnt you, it was the fact that you were their teacher.  What they learned from you is what they will do with someone else. You are setting someone up for a  ...

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