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Dealing With Loneliness

I have always struggled with the feeling of loneliness. As a child I can remember feeling this way all the time. I don’t know why, I just did. My father died when I was 6 months old so I never truly felt the love of a father. My mom worked all the time and my sister was a typical teenager. So I would often be with friends, or sometimes alone. What I really wanted was to feel love or to know it. I know my family loves me and I too love them. But, I still feel like I have nothing to  ...

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How Do I Deal With Negative People?

Someone at work is always so negative towards me. How do I deal with this? Well let me start by saying I’m a very optimistic person. Hoping that one day that person in going to come into work a whole new creation! I know that is not the case. Being around negative people is a very hard thing to do. In the past, I would give people what they wanted and return the negativity. But, I have learned over the years that it doesn’t fix the problem. It only makes it worse! As a woman of  ...

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How do I find my calling?

How do I find my calling? Well I get this question all the time. It is something that I too have struggled with. Frequently I would find myself in prayer asking the Lord what my calling is. Each time I would wait for an answer and got nothing. But, overtime i realized he was answering the question all along. It is whatever I find happiness in that honors him. To explain this I will talk about what I enjoy. I feel the happiest when I am helping others. That can include, giving advice, time,  ...

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