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How Do I Deal With Negative People?

Someone at work is always so negative towards me. How do I deal with this? Well let me start by saying I’m a very optimistic person. Hoping that one day that person in going to come into work a whole new creation! I know that is not the case. Being around negative people is a very hard thing to do. In the past, I would give people what they wanted and return the negativity. But, I have learned over the years that it doesn’t fix the problem. It only makes it worse! As a woman of  ...

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How do I find my calling?

How do I find my calling? Well I get this question all the time. It is something that I too have struggled with. Frequently I would find myself in prayer asking the Lord what my calling is. Each time I would wait for an answer and got nothing. But, overtime i realized he was answering the question all along. It is whatever I find happiness in that honors him. To explain this I will talk about what I enjoy. I feel the happiest when I am helping others. That can include, giving advice, time,  ...

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How do I move on after a break-up?

Question: How do i move on after a break-up? A break-up is a very hard thing to go through. It has happened to everyone, whether they like to admit it or not. There are many things that make this time harder than it should be. Lets start out by addressing the main reasons it becomes hard. You think about the good times, and ways that you could make it work. Stop that as soon as it starts. Don’t sit in your room all day and have that person on your mind. It will make it hard for you to  ...

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