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6 Reasons Why Your Friend’s Don’t Listen to Your Advice

Friends and family, often come to the most trusted person for advice. (I say often because there are a few times they will go to someone else for a second opinion. This, unfortunately, can get them in trouble, but ill come back to that later.) This trusted person will listen and put themselves in your shoes so they can give you the best advice possible. They give you the truth, it may hurt, it may be the best thing you ever heard, or just plain out wrong. But you will always know what their  ...

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Advice, Self Help

Dealing With Loneliness

I have always struggled with the feeling of loneliness. As a child I can remember feeling this way all the time. I don’t know why, I just did. My father died when I was 6 months old so I never truly felt the love of a father. My mom worked all the time and my sister was a typical teenager. So I would often be with friends, or sometimes alone. What I really wanted was to feel love or to know it. I know my family loves me and I too love them. But, I still feel like I have nothing to  ...

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How Do I Deal With Negative People?

Someone at work is always so negative towards me. How do I deal with this? Well let me start by saying I’m a very optimistic person. Hoping that one day that person in going to come into work a whole new creation! I know that is not the case. Being around negative people is a very hard thing to do. In the past, I would give people what they wanted and return the negativity. But, I have learned over the years that it doesn’t fix the problem. It only makes it worse! As a woman of  ...

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Advice, Self Help

How do I find my calling?

How do I find my calling? Well I get this question all the time. It is something that I too have struggled with. Frequently I would find myself in prayer asking the Lord what my calling is. Each time I would wait for an answer and got nothing. But, overtime i realized he was answering the question all along. It is whatever I find happiness in that honors him. To explain this I will talk about what I enjoy. I feel the happiest when I am helping others. That can include, giving advice, time,  ...

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